Get it out privately
Say what happened in your own words. Give yourself a moment to cool down before deciding what it means.
Squabble is a private AI companion for navigating tense moments in relationships—helping you cool down, understand your side and choose words the other person can hear.
An early concept for people who want to understand each other and repair well, not win.
When emotions are hot, what we mean and what another person hears can drift apart. Squabble gives each person private space to slow the moment down, get clearer about what’s theirs, and choose what they want to say next.
Squabble isn’t there to hand out a winner and a loser. It helps each person make room for their own experience and consider what might be true for the other person too.
Sometimes both people have something to understand or own. That doesn’t mean the responsibility is always equal. The goal is a more accurate conversation—and a repair that feels real.
Each person has their own relationship agent, shaped by a short set of personal questions. When a squabble happens, you work with your agent privately and decide what—if anything—you want to share.
Say what happened in your own words. Give yourself a moment to cool down before deciding what it means.
Notice what you felt, what you interpreted, what you need, and what part you might own.
Find language that sounds like you. Nothing is sent to anyone else unless you choose to share it.
Squabble is being designed around separate, personalised agents—not one shared inbox. Each person controls what leaves their conversation.
Each person builds their own private relationship profile.
Other people can’t browse your agent conversations.
Nothing is automatically shared between you.
You choose what to copy, paste or say in your own words.
You can review, edit and delete what your agent remembers about you.
The first version starts with the moment after tension. Over time, Squabble could also help people spot predictable pressure points in their relationships and make a plan before they arrive.
Cool down. Separate what happened from what you feared it meant. Find the part you own and work out what repair could sound like.
Look ahead at a tricky event or family week. Talk through likely friction, what support means, and how you’ll stay on the same team.
Squabble can help with disagreements across relationships and decisions. These are starting use cases; the list can grow as real needs emerge.
Prepare for a difficult conversation with a colleague, manager or team.
Make sense of a tense moment at home and decide what needs saying.
Understand your side and consider theirs before old patterns take over.
Work through a disagreement about a choice, a plan or what happens next.
And others, as the use cases emerge.
We’re shaping the first test now. If you’d like to help build a better way to navigate difficult moments across relationships, this is the place to start.
I’m interested ↗This page is a concept prototype. It doesn’t collect or store your details. The first test is being scoped around separate private accounts and memory each person can review and manage.